Thursday, November 10, 2011


I must say when it comes to clothes shopping, I love it! The weird thing is I know I don't necessarily need the clothes but I get bored so easily with my clothes that I start thinking about the stuff I will donate to replace it. My first thought is usually " can I take this to a consignment store" but then laziness kicks it and I will just donate it instead. I've realized that Dallas has a snobby outlook with regards to consignment, they clearly only want high end items and want nothing to do with the clothes that I take good care of (I do have an idea of what is just donate-able and what might be consignment worthy) . I suppose that's what I find so frustrating about living here sometimes. There are moms out there (who I've seen in action) that sit and gossip about what other people on the playground are wearing. Judging people because they can't afford a Gucci diaper bag, as if that will make their babies any happier.

So anyway.... In regards to donations, I started growing my hair out in may of 2008 with the dreams of eventually donating it. I had a lot of the colour cut out in October 2008 and my natural hair colour was all I had by march 2009. Since then I've continued to grow it and just kept up with hair trims. When I started it was just something I always wanted to do, I know those wigs are expensive but I wanted to make sure there was a child out there that had a wig with real hair not fake. I always intended to donate it to a child's cause as well because I felt that they are so young and they are stricken with an illness they don't understand they need the hair more than I would. I know there are ways to make money by selling your hair, but I felt better about giving it away instead. I get questions from family members all the time, asking me if I still intended to donate or if I am going to start colouring it again. I've even had encouragement from someone telling me to colour and cut it because sometimes colour "just looks nice", that just pisses me off. I have not come this far to all of a sudden decide that a cut and some colour is more important than the cause. After I made the Descision it was easy and since then things have happened that made me keep focus on what I was doing this for. Jackson died, and I was and still am devastated, shortly after he passed we found out that my cousins daughter was in the early states of leukemia. They caught it and started treating her, it is currently in remission but with all the treatments she lost her hair. I think it has started growing back, but She helped solidify that there is a reason I am doing this. So I suppose now when I'm out with my kids and being secretly judged by those moms, who I'm sure are wondering why my hair is so blah and colour less I can have a sense of pride that sometimes it isn't about my clothes or hair, it's about what someday my donation will mean to someone.


  1. I think it amazing that you're growing your hair out to donate it! Anyone who would dare judge you because of it is way too caught up in material things & obviously too insecure to ever consider doing something so generous. I'm positive you look beautiful with your natural colour and they're probably jealous because they need gucci purses & salon visit's every 6 weeks to feel remotely good about themselves. Also you're setting an amazing example for you children.

    Oh and I read this blog post about snobby park moms & it made me think of you:

  2. I personally like your hair colour and it inspired me (quite a while ago) to go more natural with my hair. People can just be down right rude especially when you are doing it for a good cause.

  3. No joke! I think next time I will just be more upfront and tell them that if they have a problem with me donating my hair, they can take it up with locks of love.

  4. Oh Lisa, that blog post reminded me of exactly the types of moms I see at the park and play areas in the mall.